Be Your Valentine

Valentine's Day makes those of us who are singlefor you? If you are alone this Valentine's
wistful for someone to share the dayDay, do this thing for yourself. Send yourself a
with,someone to be loved by, someone to sharegorgeous bouquet of roses, buy yourself
our lives with. We wish we had someone tosendthatfabulous piece of jewelry, take yourself out
us a gorgeous bouquet of flowers, a fabulousfor a romantic dinner. Do all of the things
piece of jewelry or have a romanticdinner with.foryourself that you would like a mate to do for
If we are alone for Valentine's Day, we feelyou.
depressed, unloved and unwanted. Our societyhasTake time to get to know yourself. Look at
taught us to look outside of ourselves for loveyourself in the mirror and see yourself as
and approval when it is more importantthat wethebeautiful spirit that you are manifested in the
find those things within us. If we do not love andbody that is you. Forgive yourself for themistakes
approve of ourselves, we will beunable to feelthat you make and honor them for the wonderful
loved and approved of by others. If we do notlearning experience that they are.
love and approve of ourselves,we will feel just asBe gentle with yourself and listen to the needs of
lonely and unloved with a mate sitting right besideyour body. Love and pamper yourself.
us. We cannot havean experience in our outerTreat yourself in the most gentle and loving way
world until it first exists in our inner world.possible.
Pay attention to how you treat yourself. Do youOnce you have developed a loving relationship
treat yourself in loving and supportive ways?with yourself, then you will be ready tomanifest a
Do you put yourself down with your innerloving relationship with the mate of your dreams.
dialogue or build yourself up? Do youTo manifest a mate in your life,make a list of the
pamperyourself and spend time doing nice thingsqualities you are looking for in a mate. Make sure
for yourself?you include gentle -you don't want an abuser;
Usually, we look in the mirror and tell ourselvessober - you don't want a drug addict or alcoholic;
that we are fat, ugly, balding, etc. When wemakehealthy; ableto commit, etc. Be specific because
a mistake, we tell ourselves how stupid we are.you will get exactly what you ask for. Cover
We feel inferior to other people. Wenever seemeverythingthat is important to you, but don't be
to have the one thing that will make us happy.so specific that you pass Mr./Ms. Wonderful by.
We feel that a mate will fix all ofthese things, butYoumay want someone with blue eyes, but what
it won't. Only we can fix those things forif Mr./Ms. Wonderful has brown eyes, or isblind?
ourselves.Be very specific about what is REALLY important
The only person we can count on to be in ourto you. Once you have the list,ask your Angels to
lives from the day we are born until the daybring that person to you. You can also burn pink
wedie is ourselves. But instead of treatingcandles to bring youlove which may help to bring
ourselves in loving, supportive ways andthis person in to you quicker.
developing arelationship with ourselves, we doWhile you are waiting for Mr./Ms. Wonderful to
everything possible not to spend time withmanifest, enjoy spending time with the
ourselves.mostimportant person in your life and Be Your
What would you like your Dream Valentine to doValentine!