Cry If You Must

"The sorrow which has no vent in tears mayleucine-enkephaline.
make other organs weep..."Teardrops have also been found to be caused by
Henry Maudsleythe clogging of the nasolacrimal ducts, which are
Do you sometimes feel so choked that you needpassages at the back of the nose.
to just pour it out? Why is it that many say theyThe stream of tears that run down our cheeks is
feel a lot better after a good sob?a no nonsense fluid. Tears contain a wealth of
Tears and Crying are not just for the lonely andinformation on its usefulness, composition, and our
the grieving. There are tears of laughter,body system's reaction to internal and external
manipulative tears, theatrical years, and tearsstress. Its efficacy is unquestionable.
caused by the elements that come in contactNot everyone though believes in the noble
with our eyes.purpose of crying.
Tears and crying are generally associated withBritish Biologist Charles Darwin concluded in his
anger and sadness. We have to remember thatbook, The Expression of Emotions in Man and
pent up emotional and psychological hurts do notAnimals, that weeping served no purpose; that is,
simply seethe inside. They need to find a way out.it is 'an incidental result' of the pressure we put on
But while they're churning within your system,our face when we twist our face. The same thing
your body is producing stress-related chemicalshappens when we are upset, happy, laughing or
that are physiologically toxic.sneezing, all pointing to muscle contraction. In the
A reasonable amount of crying can do the works.same way that infants contract their faces when
A good cry calms nerve-racking tremors in yourupset, the pressure placed upon the lachrymal
body during or after a tensed situation. It cangland forces the gland to squeeze tears out.
save you from mumbling curses or becomingStill others aver that crying, in earlier times, is less
violent which you might just regret later on.of a psychological and physical cathartic
Tears Under Studyexperience than initially thought; instead, crying
Tom Lutz, professor of English at the Universityonly increases emotional and physical tension.
of Iowa and author of 'Crying:the Natural andDavid Goleman, author of Emotional Intelligence
Cultural History of Tears, states that there arestates: "While crying can break spells of sadness,
three types of Tears;it can also leave the person still obsessing about
First, Psychogenic Lacrimation which refers tothe reasons for despair. The idea of a 'good cry'
emotional or psychic tears. It is our response tois misleading; crying that reinforces rumination only
emotional triggers emanating both from externalprolongs misery."
source like pain, broken romance or internalYet Frey strongly suggests that crying is a
source such as self realization, etc. Whenmeans of expelling a range of excess chemicals
emotions make themselves felt, the nervousand protein from the body. Crying, like urination
system fuels the cranial nerves and sends theand defecation, is simply one of the body's ways
message to the tear glands. Crying then results.of excreting wastes.
Second are Basal Tears. These are continuousBelief in the favorable effects of crying can be
tears that moisten the eyes. They barelytraced thousands of years ago; In his Catharsis
generate visible drops since they either evaporateTheory, Aristotle inferred that crying at drama
between blinks or are drainedthought the Punta,'cleanses the mind' of suppressed emotions by a
the small openings at the nose end of each eyelidprocess of 'catharsis,' where a reduction of
and eventually to thenose.distress takes place by releasing the emotions.
The third type is Reflex tears which actCountless of other researchers believe in crying
whenever smoke, onion vapors, andother irritantsas one of the human's tools in coping and in being
get in the eyes. Still others wrote that Emotionalable to maintain physical and emotional health
tears are one form of Reflex tears where onlybalance. It's no miracle then that you often will
the stimulus differs.feel lighter after a crying spree. 'It was a good
William Frey II, Ph.D. a Biochemist at the St. Paul-cry,' one may say.
Ramsey Medical Center in Minneapolis and one ofAlthough there are countless ways of paring the
the world's few tear experts, literally collectedeffects of negative emotions,crying is the most
tears to chemically examine their contents. Tearsexpeditious and convenient option for restoring
caused by onions (reflex tears) contained 98%equilibrium withinwhen you are emotionally aching,
water whileemotional tears contained more toxins.sort of a first aid tool to buffer the initial shocks
Examinations also revealed tears containthat often accompany emotionally straining
endorphin, the brain's natural pain killer, whosecircumstances.
properties are similar to morphine that canSimply crying may not resolve issues, dissolve
modulate pain, other sensations, and liftup mood.grief or heal old wounds at once. However, once
Tears also release prolactin and ACTH (pituitaryyou realize the oodles of accumulated stress
hormone) in response tostress.chemicals that have built up and still continue to
Tears are salty, watery secretions thatbuild up, you'll be grateful for this wonderful gift of
constantly lubricate, moisten, cleanse, and protectthe human's capacity to expel these poisons.
eyes from infection and irritants. Tears alsoYou don't need to be a scientist to prove that
possess oils and mucus that form a thin film tothere is comfort after a good cry. Crying, like an
protect the eyes' surface.intimate conversation with a friend, makes it
Studies further indicate that tears containeasier for you to handle emotional ordeals when
proteins, enzymes, lipids, metabolites, sugar andyou feel you just cannot take them anymore.
electrolytes, potassium, manganese, and