How Our Past Becomes Our Future

How The Pain of the Past Threatens UsI am of the opinion that it is useful to retain the
Part of the reason we set ourselves up forwisdom of the past without holding on to the
difficulties are the memories of pain we havesuffering from the emotional pain of the past. In
gone through in the past. For instance, you ororder to do this we must be willing to surrender
someone you know may have been threatenedand release the pain and suffering which are
with losing money, losing employment, losing aessentially patterns held somewhere in our mind.
house, or losing a relationship and these issues,Some people believe there is value to holding the
which have a lot of strong fear and otherpain and while I support everyone's freewill choice
emotional content, sets a deep pattern into do that for those who would like to release
memory and the subconscious. Then when youpain, suffering and struggling I can offer some
hear something on the news or from someonesuggestions.
telling you a story, the pattern calls on theThe first step in releasing anything is to identify
memory in your history reminding you of yoursome details about what you are releasing. This
past pain and struggles and the inner voices aremay seem obvious, but there is usually more than
activated saying things like, "Remember when youmeets the eye. So the first thing you will want to
suffered something similar? Well, watch out. Thisdo is spend a little time exploring the nature of
could happen again. This could be coming yourthe discomfort. It is not necessary to go deeply
way right now, so be very careful."into the feelings, but it is helpful to touch on them
So we use our own history to validate anenough so you could describe them to yourself.
imagined threat when there isn't even a realWhy? Because we essentially only seem to
threat. But by virtue of acknowledging theeffectively release what we identify. Hence, the
possibility of something that could be threatening,more you can describe what you are
you set yourself up to manifest a threat becauseexperiencing, the more you will be able to release.
we live in a mirror universe that reflects back toBeing a bit of a detective to discover aspects of
us what we hold in our consciousness.what the discomfort is will pay off with rich
How Our Past Becomes Our Futurerewards when it comes to releasing and letting go.
Here is what happens to us...we live as though ourThis is also where working with another person
past is not past, but right now. Even if we believecan be really helpful, especially if that person
something happened in a past life we live now asknows techniques to help you do this.
if the pattern is still real. We are hypnotized intoThe more you release and let go of the grip of
believing it is real today.suffering and struggle, the more you will
In every life there are obstacles automaticallyexperience the natural goodness and happiness
created by forces we have set in motion in thethat lies waiting in the core of your inner being.
past. If you look back on your life you will seeOnce you have identified the suffering and
that some or perhaps many of the things youstruggling, then you progress to the next step
have suffered with seem to be expertly,which is acknowledging your willingness to
intricately and perhaps even intentionallydis-identify with it and affirmatively state you are
manufactured motivators. You may have evenletting it go. For instance,
marveled at how circumstances worked out in"I am willing to surrender and release the need for
the most amazing ways to set up the mostfear and anxiety."
detailed challenges that hit you where you were"I am willing to surrender and release the need for
the most vulnerable. Well, if you have noticed this,loss and lack."
you are not alone because it happens to"I am willing to surrender and release the need
everyone.struggling."
You may have heard the ancient Greek saying,Of course, your own releasing statements can be
"The mills of the gods grind slowly, but they grindfar more specific and detailed, but the wording I
exceedingly fine." As a child I never understoodam giving you in the above examples is really
what that meant, but as I grew older I began tohelpful, but there is something important for you
get an insight that we are all put through a grinderto know about any releasing statements. These
of sorts which addresses all of our characterstatement seem simple enough, but they don't do
traits. We then either resist them, refine them ormuch unless you connect with the feeling
release them. If we resist the mills keep grinding.component behind the words. In other words, if
The grinding stops when we discover the way tothis process is done as a mental or intellectual
let go of the resistance. At that point weexercise there will be limited results. If you feel
experience a sense of relief and find more easethe words when you say them, you will
and flow.experience some relief. If you also apply some
All releasing techniques are designed to addressenergy healing techniques, you can become
fabrications held in the mind which are really falsecompletely free.
perceptions and conclusions. The mind and egoI have written other articles that cover more
continually create false reasons for lack, struggle,aspects on how to go further with the clearing
and suffering.process.