| Most of my clients are shocked when they find | | | | extending feelings of pressure is not. |
| out that I have only read three or four self-help | | | | - Healer Knows Best – It is appropriate - with |
| spiritual books (that's why I love Nina's site). We | | | | your permission - for your potential coach to |
| are living in an age, thank the heavens, of | | | | share with you their feelings on what direction |
| awareness. It is the era of The Secret and The | | | | your journey together could take. It is |
| Law of Attraction. This awareness movement is | | | | inappropriate for any healer to dismiss your |
| really in the infant stages and that means we are | | | | feelings and insist that they know best. |
| all getting our balance and determining how to | | | | I'm a spiritual person and I'm also a tangible |
| walk our talk. | | | | person. Expansion only really works if a person |
| Whether you have been on your journey awhile | | | | can implement what they learn into their daily life |
| or just starting out, I believe it is important to | | | | to impact reality. Below are some suggestions |
| seek mentoring and guidance. No one can do it | | | | for your selection process. |
| all on their own. | | | | - Compare – So an individual has caught your |
| The first step to selecting the correct individual | | | | eye. As you get to know this individual, see how |
| for you is to be clear about what and who you | | | | they fit with your request list. |
| want. I suggest you sit down in a quiet location | | | | - Experience – We live in the age of |
| and connect to your heart. List what you would | | | | information. I suggest you sign up for their |
| like a mentor's or coach's guidance to achieve for | | | | newsletter, see if the healer offers a |
| you. I suggest also adding to the list the | | | | complimentary session, and/or read their |
| characteristics or qualities you would like this | | | | Facebook and Tweets. Get to know them and |
| person to have (courage, grace, loving, etc). This | | | | their message. |
| will help the Universe to start working its magic. | | | | - Check In – The only person who knows |
| I'm honored to be a healer of healers, which | | | | what's right for you is you. Get in touch with |
| means that leaders and healers seek me out to | | | | your feelings about this person. Would you want |
| be their guide and mentor. Some of them have | | | | them on your team? Remember, depending on |
| shared their experience with securing the help and | | | | the program, this could be your go-to person for |
| guidance of someone who just wasn't right for | | | | the next 6 to 12 months. |
| them. Some of these lessons were learned | | | | To me, transforming your life is a Soulful process, |
| after spending thousands of dollars. So, how do | | | | not an intellectual one. So I suggest that you |
| you select the right healer, coach, mentor, that is | | | | allow your heart to lead the way and use the |
| right for you? | | | | strengths of the mind to gather the facts and do |
| A couple of indications that a mentor, coach, | | | | the research. At the end of the day, the best |
| teacher, and/or spiritual leader and teacher, isn't | | | | individual for you will be the person who you |
| right for you are: | | | | trust, creates a safe space for you to grow and |
| - Fear Language – The individual's materials | | | | expands, listens and provides healing guidance. |
| are filled with fear-based language. An example | | | | Jennifer Urezzio is an master intuitive and the |
| of this is: if you don't do this program or read this | | | | founder of Know Soul's Language. Soul |
| book you will not achieve what you desire. If you | | | | Language enables you to consciously connect |
| want to run screaming from the room after | | | | with your Soul in a way received through Divine |
| reading their materials, well… | | | | Guidance. Understanding your Soul Languages |
| - Pressure – My business is healing and | | | | allows you to access your own Soul's guidance to |
| healing is my business. So asking a possible client | | | | accept your value, be more confident, have more |
| if they have made a decision about working with | | | | impact and grow into a stronger leader. |
| me is acceptable. Creating a situation where I'm | | | | You can sign up for Jennifer's newsletter here. |