Love Or Fear? Life's Two Choices - How to Tell Which One You Live Your Life By

Is your life happy, are you living it to the fullest?you are Divinely created, accepted and
Do you have emotional peace and calm? Do youunconditionally loved every moment of every day.
wake up each morning anticipating the joy of theWhen we always choose love, it creates a great
adventure of the day ahead? Do you feel secureand vibrant shift around us in our jobs,
about your future and the future of your lovedrelationships, even in our personal health. As we
ones? Can you actually feel a Divine hand uponhave seen, everything has to be positive and
your life and the warmth of personal guidance?loving to be near us or it has to transform or
Do you have a sense of purpose? Are youmove away. And since our physical health cannot
attaining your biggest dreams? If you do notmove away from us, every time we make a
have these things, what is holding you back? Youchoice motivated by love we make a choice for
know that you are unique, and have the potentialgood health. Perhaps you have heard of spiritually
to do much more than you are presently. But,adept people throughout the world who have
what has been holding you back? This is nothingexceptionally vibrant and healthy lives well into old
you can blame on your job, your family, yourage - now you know one reason why.
mate, your level of education or social standing.So how have you been making your life choices?
This is placed square on your own shoulders andWhat kind of child were you in elementary school?
influences every day of your life, which has aWhat about high school? Do you hate some of
ripple effect on every day after it. Let's lookthe memories that come up? Do you blame other
closer at life's two choices and honestly see whichpeople for things that happened to you? Your
one you are living your life by, and why.parents, teachers, friends or bullies? And are you
There are only two choices in life. Love or thestill blaming people now? No matter what choices
opposite of love; and the opposite of love is notother people make and what part of their ripple
hate, but fear. Love always moves us forward,effect we have been in, we can choose to love,
fear stagnates and freezes us. This is a simpleforgive, survive, grow and thrive. And we can
yardstick to help us recognize any place ofchoose the ripple effect of our own choices to be
stagnation in our lives and to make new choices.better than those we have formerly been a part
When we see what has been the true motivatingof. When we do this, an active transformation
factor behind our decisions, it gives us the powertakes place, which is another part of the
to change things and make it better. Andmulti-facets of love. Blame, hate, unforgiveness -
something else takes place. When we consistentlyall of the negative emotions - are all part of fear.
choose love over fear, an incredible"There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives
transformation occurs around us, because lightout fear, because fear has to do with punishment.
and darkness can't be in the same place together.The one who fears is not made perfect in love."
They simply cannot exist jointly as one; they are(1 John 4:18)
of two different natures. So when we makeWhen we always choose love, we actively
choices governed by love, a great shifting occurschoose our God-given birthright to how our lives
in our lives, for the better. And conversely, whereare supposed to be, and we feel this deeply in our
we see any stagnation in our lives, we will findsoul. It is our true and full potential to embrace
that was a place where our initial choices wereloving and long-term relationships, financial
made out of fear, and that no forwardabundance, and effervescent physical and mental
movement occurs there, or is very slow andhealth. With the expanded clarity that comes
tedious.from advancing in love, we can also more easily
What is a choice for love? Let's say you areidentify further opportunities of light around us.
looking for a job. There is a job listing for yourThis helps us make better decisions by recognizing
dream job - you would be doing something thatthe Divine interventions of love placed before us,
you've always wanted to, and even getting paidchoosing these, and then fully following through
for it. But the pay is weak, and you are afraid itwith them.
wouldn't be enough, and there is no guarantee toNow in regard to everything else, we must realize
know if and when the pay would go up. So youthat the shifting around us that happens when we
continue to look and find a job listing that will givealways choose love can be initially difficult to
you above the pay you want, but the hours andwitness. Yet, it is for our soul's greater and
location are all wrong, and the job itself is just ahighest good, and all those connected with us.
job, nothing to be really excited about. Now whichWhen we discern this, it helps us trust and accept
one are you going to circle? If your mainthe changes taking place. Love is always the
motivation is fear, you are going to stagnate in abetter way. That is why trust, bravery and faith
job you don't like, that no amount of money canis essential to advance forward in love, for fear
make up for. Whereas if you choose the job youlimits our ability to allow or follow through with
love, your joy will be shining through not only inchanges. Making new choices of love may mean
your home life but in your job too. And in anleaving behind our old job, old friends or
employer's eyes, who would be more likely to getrelationships. Often we yearn for how things
a raise, the person who tolerates their job or theshould be, and not what they actually were. Many
one who is actually happy to be there? Also, ontimes people stay in situations that are not good
the spiritual side, God looks to bless those whofor them simply because it is familiar, not because
bravely step out in faith, and all kinds of wonderfulit is good for them. Trusting in love helps us
and not-so-coincidental opportunities come fromactively step outside of our comfort zone onto
that.new, higher ground. That new ground is where
With every choice that we make for love, wethe new world awaits, with new opportunities; and
move ahead on our journey and become brighter.like any explorer traveling to new lands, faith is
And if darkness tries to move toward light, itneeded to leave the old things behind. "Faith is
either has to transform into light to be near us, orbeing sure of what we hope for, and certain of
move away even to exist. Nothing harmful is ablewhat we do not see." (Hebrews 11:1)
to stay near us. Nothing. Think of it this way,In that new world that we find ourselves in, we
when we bring a lit candle into a darkened room,also find that we are a new person as well, a
look what happens to the room - the entire areajoyous and more connected and loving one. And
transforms, and the area closest to the flame iswe will never find ourselves alone. Our
the brightest. Now, do we have to be afraid thatrelationships, jobs and everything else around us
the darkness will overwhelm and put out thewill be brighter and healthier for us too, for we
candle? No, it doesn't matter how dark the roomactively discern the healthier opportunities placed
is, the darkness can never put out the candle.before us - and better yet, even follow through
But, the candle can put itself out. In human terms,on taking them. And as we continue to expand in
this happens when we buy into the ideas oflight, we become more aware of living a joyous
unworthiness, separation and doubt, the uglinesslife fully guided by love, and the larger positive
that the darkness tries to convince us that weripple effect our interactions have with others. We
are part of. But we are not of the darkness, webecome aware of our spiritual need. We become
were created of light, and when we rememberaware of prayer. And we become aware that
this our flame will never go out. It does notmuch of what we might have been traditionally
matter what darkness tries to imply or manipulatetaught doesn't ring true with the essence of our
us into thinking. We were created of light andspirit anymore. What then? When you know
love. And when we remember our true nature itLove, you know the heart of God. So, like so
doesn't matter if we are accepted or rejected bymany saints, philosophers and poets before you,
others, because we remember who we are in theyou may be mocked or even persecuted for
eyes of God, at a spirit level. That is where thathaving your own ideas about love, but if you
desire for acceptance and oneness comes from,fearlessly keep yourself on the path of love,
because we have felt it before we were born,nothing thrown at you will matter at all. Plus, your
and we want to experience it again, even whileinner peace and confidence will grow, because
we are doing silly human things. Knowing yourself,"God is love. Whoever lives in love lives in God,
remembering who you are, is about rememberingand God in him.