Maintaining Love and Gratitude in an Unthankful World

Being a Light in the Midst of Darknessand will continue to create feelings of sadness,
What do you want for your life, and what do youincompleteness and despair; but as we continue to
want for the lives of your children? Universally,choose love, that light expands and grows into a
the answer is the same: "happiness." Finding andbright bonfire of joy and happiness within.
expanding happiness is part of our Divine purposeAlthough it may not always be easy to show love
as a human being. The brighter and more lovingand gratitude in our daily lives, when we do, there
we are, the more God can experience and shareis always a beautiful ripple effect that occurs
our life with us. This is why we seek it out, andfrom it, whether we visually see it at that time or
wish to expand and maintain it when we find it.not. As an additional bonus, our spirit knows we
This goes well beyond the comfort we may feelare doing what we came here to do, and as this
from any material things we own, and can beinner happiness expands we feel more
expressed and received in many ways. There arecomfortable, peaceful and confident. And since our
things we can do everyday to attain and maintainspirit resides within our physical body, besides the
this deeper feeling of joy. And love and gratitudespiritual and emotional benefits we receive, there
are crucial parts to sustaining it.are very tangible health benefits as well.
For one thing, remember that you are not aloneIn the very first photo of Dr. Emoto's famous
in your desire to be happy and that mostbook "The Hidden Messages in Water" a beautiful
everyone desires the same thing, even thoughice crystal is shown, with more facets than any
you may not be outwardly seeing it. For example,jeweler could ever cut. This was the result of
although acts of love and gratitude occur millionswrapping the two words Love and Gratitude
of time every moment throughout the world,around a bottle of water, freezing a sample of it,
these are not the ones that gain the attention ofthen photographing a slice of the result. "This
the media. A rare segment at the end of acrystal is as perfect as can be. This indicates that
newscast or the back of a newspaper maylove and gratitude are fundamental to the
mention an act of heroism, but in reality they arephenomenon of life in all of nature." This is a
not rare at all. Huge difficulties are beingrepeatable scientific result of positive physical
successfully surmounted everyday, by peoplechanges that occur when love and gratitude is
who choose to follow-through on the choice ofexpressed. It changes things around us, it
love. Take the time to look for these stories,balances and purifies; and the water is just one
they can be found everywhere; on the Internet,sample of it, which is part and particle to about
magazines, by word of mouth. Perhaps even70% of our bodies, and the same ratio of ocean
keep an archive so that you can be reminded ofto land on the earth. This is also a good reminder
the love in the world and that the over-all heartto say a prayer or blessing of thanks over our
of mankind is good, although many of thesefood and water before we eat it. Isn't it
expressions of love and gratitude are ofteninteresting to see the bigger picture of why
hidden from the world.mankind in so many cultures and lands have felt
We hold a door open and a stranger says "thankcompelled to do this for thousands of years?
you" and we smile. We send a card or an emailThat spirit within us knows and compels us,
showing our gratitude for another and we makealthough analytically we may not know the
their heart glad. In that universal expression ofscience behind it until later. "We love because he
happiness, the smile shows the love we arefirst loved us." (John 4:19) Love truly transforms
feeling in our heart, indeed, in our soul. Do you feeland changes things!
the satisfaction and warmth inside? That is theChoosing to take the extra steps to show love
knowing that you are doing what you should beand gratitude in what only looks to be an
doing. You are feeling that God-connection youunthankful world is a main key to attaining joy.
were created with, the spark of light flickeringAnd although there are different holidays which
within. "God is love. Whoever lives in love lives incan be good reminders to express this, daily
God, and God in him." (1 John 4:16) How manytransformations will occur when we do this on a
times in your own life have you taken that extraregular basis. Keeping a journal or archive of
step, or been thankful to another for the steppositive stories reminds and encourages us to be
they have taken? We may not have ran into aan expression of love ourselves and that the
burning building or been pulled from one, but howover-all heart of mankind is good. Directing our
many struggles felt like we were doing exactlythoughts on what we have, not on what we do
that? Even by giving or receiving a hug or wordnot, refocuses our priorities in a positive way. Our
of encouragement, very real fires can be put outchoosing of love over fear continues the
and lives can change for the better, if the choiceawareness, brightening and expanding of our true
of that opportunity is taken. And it is a choice, aDivine nature. This includes being consistent in
personal one that can be made several times aoffering blessings for what we receive and give,
day.including our food and water. Expressing love and
In reality, our happiness depends on making onlygratitude satisfies our deep sense of purpose,
two choices in life: love or fear. The choice ofwhich transforms not only our environment, but
love will always move us forward, whereas fearour spiritual, emotional and physical health as well.
stagnates and freezes us. This is also why weSo no matter what is perceived outwardly, true
can look at any place of immobilization in our lifehappiness can be sustained by the personal choice
and know better choices can be made there. Weof love, and with that we can choose to be
are created as sparks off the Divine flame. Sograteful every day, which in itself is something of
fear and stagnation is not in our comfort zonewhich we can be truly thankful.